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Sapphic As Fuck Books That You Haven’t Heard Of

inejgayfa:

yeah bitches i’m back and I have some God Dang Thoughts. all of them are about sapphic novels I’ve read this year and have seen nothing about on this platform!! sapphic fiction is getting its day in the sun and y'all have not yet NOTICED and it’s time to fix that

  1. Girl Made of Stars by Ashley Herring Blake [May 2018!!] - this is about a bi girl working to figure out both her brother’s role in a rape of her best friend and her own trauma, especially in how it affected her relationship with her ex, Charlie [who’s nb!] Charlie and Mara are my literal otp of the year and this book is one of the most quality ya books I have ever read. I cried and laughed and connected so much. 
  2. Leah on the Offbeat by Becky Albertalli - this is the only one I haven’t read, but if you wanted Leah to end up with Abby after watching Love, Simon, maybe read the sequel where she actually does
  3. Final Draft by Riley Redgate [May 2018!!] - this book is about being an ambitious and depressed and biracial and pan as hell seventeen year old and it is so funny. what gets me about this one is that the characters are so real - Laila’s inner narrative especially is so incredibly well-done, I feel like I both know her and am her and love her. also, Hannah and Laila sailing was the most important moment of this year so far. a goddamn callout of a book
  4. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid - the best heterobait of 2017. I spent five extended hours of my life crying over Evelyn and Celia and I plan to spend more. very Literary Historical Fiction that reads like your typical pulpy mystery but is so much better. literally perfect. thank you for coming to my Ted Talk
  5. Black Iris by Elliot Wake - ooooooh my god.  if you’ve ever wanted to read about Murder Gays who Kill Shitty Men this is your book and you should read it [tw for sexual assault and homophobic bullying] ooooooooo hh  m yg od
  6. The Apocalypse of Elena Mendoza by Shaun David Hutchinson - the voice of god references that name game meme from two years ago. I do not kid. seriously, though, this book is so effortlessly weird and cool and quintessentially millennial. i would die for Elena’s flawed bad-at-decision-making sarcastic vulnerable latina bi ass. [oh, and her girlfriend is amazing].
  7. Jane Unlimited by Kristin Cashore - this is the wildest book ever written, maybe? I love it so much what the fuck
  8. Wild Beauty by Anna-Marie McLemore - sometimes a family can be five sisters all in love with the same genderqueer girl. no but seriously, this killed me. i cried for five hours. i cry a lot. this book is a literary masterpiece and belongs in every class on post-colonial writing and queer studies, but it also doesn’t Feel like annoying literary fiction but also you will probably feel really deep after reading it?
  9. Nevernight and Godsgrave by Jay Kristoff - invented enemies-to-lovers. another heterobait. they’re all assassins and the writing is overdramatic to the point of satire [yes, it’s intentional]. kind of hilarious for a book about murder. a walking meme that will make you sad
  10. Into the Drowning Deep by Mira Grant - it’s like Jaws but with bisexuals and mermaids. i k n o w it sounds really wild but i read this book in like one night and it was so goddamn entertaining but also so deep and yeah i’ll die if a sequel gets released
  11. Bright We Burn by Kiersten White [July 2018!!] - sometimes a family can be a useless gay, his competent lesbian wife, her girlfriend, and his boyfriend. LISTEN UP, BITCHES. this trilogy is now completed [!!!] and it is the most addicting trilogy on the market right now. it’s about becoming at home with yourself and finding religion in love [most of the leads are Muslim] and the power of the forgotten in history and i can’t believe kiersten white killed the bury-your-gays trope, personally. Nazira and Fatima don’t narrate, but they are such an important part of this book and I adore them both. love these four platonically married gays

anyway read my fucking weird gay books you’re welcome

Holy shit bollywood is making a movie having a wlw pairing ???

thefemaleofspecies:

Its name is Ek ladki ko dekha toh esa laga (When I saw a girl I felt like this)

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This is probably the first MAINSTREAM movie in bollywood having wlw  starring a famous bollywood actress! Heres the trailer !!

shirosredknight:

boogiewoogiebuglegal:

cricketcat9:

topsecretespeonage:

neurofancier:

khirsahle:

newtsckamander:

suaimhneas-peace:

emeraldboreas:

a-windsor:

mellivorinae:

a-windsor:

mellivorinae:

OH MY GOD whyyyy did no one tell me you’re supposed to send thank-yous after interviews?? Why would I do that???

“Thank you for this incredibly stressful 30 minutes that I have had to re-structure my entire day around and which will give me anxiety poos for the next 24 hours.”

I HATE ETIQUETTE IT’S THE MOST IMPOSSIBLE THING FOR ME TO LEARN WITHOUT SOMEONE DIRECTLY TELLING ME THIS SHIT

NO ONE TOLD YOU???? WTF! I HAVE FAILED YOU. Also: Dear ______: Thank you so much for the opportunity to sit down with you (&________) to discuss the [insert job position]. I am grateful to be considered for the position. I think I will be a great fit at [company name], especially given my experience in __________. [insert possible reference to something you talked about, something that excited you.] I look forward to hearing from you [and if you are feeling super confident: and working together in the future]. Sincerely, @mellivorinae

THIS IS A LIFESAVING TEMPLATE

YOU ARE WELCOME

My brother got a really great paid internship one summer. The guy who hired him said the deciding factor was the professional thank you letter my brother sent after the interview.

should it be an email? or like a physical letter?

email, you want to send it within a few hours at max after the interview if you can so it’s fresh in their mind who you are. 

Confirmed! I interviewed for a job right after arriving in NY. The interview went incredibly well, and I went home and immediately wrote a thank you letter and put it in the mail. I had a super good feeling about this interview.

I didn’t get the job.

However, a few weeks later, I was called in to interview with another editor in the same company, and I did get that job. I found out later from the initial editor (the one who didn’t hire me) that he had planned to offer me the job, but since I didn’t follow up with a thank you letter, he assumed I didn’t really want it. He offered the job to another contender–but when he got my letter in the mail shortly after the offer had already been made, he went to HR and gave me a glowing recommendation. It was based on that recommendation that I got called in for the second interview.

So: send an email thank you immediately (same day!) after the interview. If you’re feeling extra, go ahead and send a written one too. OR go immediately to a coffee shop, write the letter, and return to the office and give it to the secretary.

Either way, those letters are important.

Pro tip: If you really want HR to develop a personal interest in your application, publicly thank them on linkedin. Just make a short post telling your network about how X recruiter really went above and beyond to make you feel welcome, or about how be accommodating and professional they were, or whatever. Make sure to use the mention feature so they’ll get a notification and see it. 

Flattery will get you everywhere… and public flattery that might make its way back to their manager, doubly so.

Obligatory plug for one of FreePrintable.net’s sites: ThankYouLetter.ws. They have a whole section with interview thank you letter templates, and a page with specific tips for interview thank you letters. (There are also tons of other letter templates if you browse around a bit.)

As a former professional recruiter and recruiting manager, I confirm, especially for entry-level positions, where you are competing with oodles of people. This little thing can make a difference. Also the fact that, maybe, you took time to google the “interview etiquette”.

SIGNAL BOOST

The post-interview thank you notes can be a good way to recover in case you got asked a question whose answer you either didn’t know or felt was super weak. So if you follow the above given template, jump in with something like “upon further thought to your question, here’s my revised answer.” 

But yeah always send a thank you note after an interview. It’s a small thing but it makes a hell of a difference. And def send thank you messages to any recruiters who may have helped. And also after you get the job. Small things like that really go a long long way.

paramoregf:

as we’re now approaching 20biteen heres a message to all the lovely bi folks following me: ❤️💜💙💘💋💗💞💖💞💗💞💕💋💓❤️💜💙💗💓💗💕💘❤️💜💙💓💟💕🖤❤️💜💙💟💞💖❤️💋💋💞💞❣️💖❤️💞💞💖💞❤️💜💙💞💋💞💖💝💋💓❤️💘❤️❤️💋💞💓❤️💜💙💞❣️🖤💗❤️❤️💕💝💟💟💞❤️💜💙💕❤️💜💙🖤💓💞💖💝❤️💜💙💟💘❤️💞❤️💜💙💗💝💕💕💘❤️💕❤️💜💙💝💓🖤💕💗💝💟💖❤️💜💙💘💋❣️💟💞❤️💜💙💞💙💖💗💖💞❤️💜💙💝💖💕💝💟❣️💞💗💞💋❤️💜💙❣️💟💘❣️💖💓💖❤️💜💙❤️💘💞💝💖💕💞💗❤️💞💓💗💞❣️💗💓💞💟💝❤️💓💗💖❣️❤️💜💙❤️💋💙💘💕💞💞💓❤️💜💙❤️💝💝💞🖤❤️💜💙💗💕💗❤️❤️💜💙💟💜❣️💗💘

whatagrump:

2018 was a critical flop but they keep making more smh

fassophy:

Rachel Weisz as Lady Sarah (The Favourite, 2018)

fuckyeahasexual:

“You don’t have to have sex. Ever. If you’re not interested, if you’re not into the concept, if the thought of it makes you ill, even if you just plain don’t want to, whatever the reason is, you don’t have to have sex. No matter what your friends say or what the TV says or what “society” says, you do not have to have sex if you do not want to have sex. You don’t even have to justify why not. If you don’t want to have sex, you don’t have to get anyone else’s approval. No means no, and if anyone else has a problem with that, that’s their problem to deal with.”

http://www.asexualityarchive.com/an-asexuals-guide-to-having-sex/
(via affirm-ace-ions)

somebodyaunty:

This is facts though lol

tusks-and-tonics:

horrorinthegraveyard:

ouijubell:

halftruthsandhyperbole:

Today I learned

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Free Audiobooks and Ebooks on OVERDRIVE.

Free Graphic Novels (DC, Marvel, Image, etc), Music, TV shows, and music on HOOPLA.

Free music that you can KEEP on FREEGAL

You are PAYING for all this with your tax money - USE THEM. Most likely systems will have all 3 or 2 out of 3, so if you aren’t sure call your local library’s reference/information desk and how you can get set-up or started.

Hey, highkey from a library worker: 

Overdrive has a new mobile app called LIBBY I find it easier to use.  It’s the same content as Overdrive just better for mobile.  Overdrive and Libby both let you send items to your kindle as well.  

Can confirm Overdrive is amazing. 

I work in the largest library system in my state (17 branches in total).

I use it not only for ebooks, but movies as well.

Other FREE resources to check with your library for are:

  • Freegal Music (download and keep music, including current music)
  • Hoopla Digital (borrow ebooks, e-audiobooks, e-graphic novels, stream movies)
  • Kanopy (stream movies; also available on Roku!)
  • Axis360 (usually hot or just released ebooks)

If you don’t have a library card…

GET ONE!

If someone says libraries are a thing of the past…

BOOP THEM IN THE NOSE WITH YOUR KINDLE!

Don’t discount libraries as “quiet” places. 

THEY ARE ALIVE!!!

THEY ARE LOUD!!!

THEY ARE YOUR DOORWAYS TO KNOWLEDGE!!

books-n-quotes:

“Sometimes you are going to miss a person who was an almost to you. And feel sad because there is no name for that feeling. You just feel it in a way that makes you tired to your very bones.”

— Nikita Gill, Almost Feelings

clitoridien:
“Vassar College girls practicing Greek dance c. 1923
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clitoridien:

Vassar College girls practicing Greek dance c. 1923

moviehealthcommunity:

justepilepsy:

Into the seizureverse

I experienced into the spiderverse today because a friend really wanted to see it and me to and I struggled to truly believe that it would be as bad as @moviehealthcommunity said.

Now… I apologise. It was bad. I didn’t have a seizure but let me stress two things:

First

This movie is not for children.

Despite the age rating 12+ there were a couple of children with their parents with us in this film. The young boy next to us didn’t have the time of his life. He seemed quite scared at the end. Sitting on his mother’s lap and holding on to her. He might have enjoyed parts of it but he was suspiciously quiet most of the movie despite being a quite bubbly vocal lad before…

Second

My friend always told me when to close and open my eyes. But even for them it got straining.

Art and animation are amazing but the intro, a couple of fights in the beginning and the entire final fight I had to cover my eyes completely. Relying on my friend to tell me what’s going on.

In addition there are a lot of effects and scenes where flashes flickera etc turn up for short effects. Due to the bright colors they are quite intense despite being short.

The entire final fight is composed in a realm of red and blue light, colored outlines that are partly shifting add on to the intensity.

I watched marvel movies without struggle and I enjoy animation. I adore so many things they did in this movie but its a shame I will only ever get to enjoy the final fight in shape of maybe an artbook.

Don’t watch it alone. Take sb who will give you warnings or will tell you when the sequences end. Maybe.. Don’t watch it at all.

In this incident, this person was warned beforehand, thanks to our post about Into the Spider-Verse. However, many people are going into this movie without warning, and unknowingly subjecting themselves to these risks.

Please take a moment to sign and share our petition asking Sony to issue epilepsy warnings for this film. Thanks!

https://www.change.org/p/sony-epilepsy-warning-for-spider-man-into-the-spider-verse